Integral Relationship - Understand and grow your relationships

(from an article written and originally posted by Mary Gordon, Facilitator of the ongoing series of Integral Relationship workshops, on her website at https://www.magicandhope.com/blog)

The Integral Relationship message is for anyone wanting to understand and grow their relationships. Developed by Martin Ucik (the author of two books on the subject, "Integral Relationships, A Manual for Men," and "Sex, Purpose, Love"), Integral Relationship provides a deep study of relationships and the people involved, and gives answers when we wonder 'Why?" romance falters or fails.

There are many relationship books in the marketplace. They may address an aspect of relationships such as soulmates, or conflict, or the differences between the needs of men and women. Yet with the Integral Relationship material, you get all that, and more. You come away from reading Martin's books with "Ah-ha" moments of "Oh, that's what was happening!"

I was intrigued when I first was introduced to Integral Relationship. I couldn't get enough. I wanted to understand "Why." The books answered questions I had from relationships going back years:  Why I was irritated. Why I was irritating! Why we were too far apart. What I wanted for myself. Why settling is of no value in the filling of your soul.

What I found especially beneficial is how this material, while focusing on romance, can be used to understand all sorts of relationships: with friends, family, and even with workmates. It showed me Why we are different. It explained the deepest parts of ourselves that makes us desire specific attributes in others, and why we have conflict when we feel so out of tune with another.
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Integral Relationship showed me that we can work on our relationships. We can be kind. We can be allowing of another's traits or even of their peculiarities. Yet when it comes to steadfast connections which allow each other to grow individually, as well as in a couple, we should look for qualities in others that match our needs away from the hormonal influences that wane, and that give romance a decent chance to be successful.

"Why did it happen?" "How can I make it much better?"

I recommend Martin Ucik's books wholeheartedly. 
Find them at https://www.bridges.academy/facultybooks.html

​Getting in touch with these learnings will provide the opportunity to have those "Ah-ha" moments of understanding.  Individuals and couples can learn about and navigate the pieces of themselves that they bring to a relationship.

Knowledge is power, they say.

Mary Gordon
February 2022

Mary Gordon is a clairvoyant and clairsentient intuitive. She provides readings for clients who are wanting clarity, counsel and help with decisions, or to check in to see if they are on the right track.  In addition, Mary is a Clinical Hypnotherapist as well as an Integral Relationship facilitator, teaching the Integral Relationship model to help individuals and couples understand their relationship differences and grow themselves as individuals. Visit her at https://www.magicandhope.com/integral-relationship