INTEGRAL RELATIONSHIP
Learn about others. Learn about yourself.
with Mary Gordon
Certified Integral Relationship Professional and Group Facilitator
NEW: Integral Relationship program in a time-condensed format
Complete this 40 hour program in four weekends!
Mar 25-26, Apr 1-2, Apr 15-16 and Apr 22-23
Investment: $495
What makes people tick?
Why do we get along with some people and not with others?
Why are love relationships often challenging, and what can we do about it?
How can we function in the world being true to ourselves?
Why do we get along with some people and not with others?
Why are love relationships often challenging, and what can we do about it?
How can we function in the world being true to ourselves?
Open to EVERYONE
For anyone wanting to understand themselves, identify relationships that would serve them, and connect with people in a more integral way.

Integral Relationship is dynamic information whether you are:
- In a relationship, not in a relationship, or want to be in a fulfilling relationship (key word: fulfilling)
- Want to grow your awareness of self, friends and family
- Would like to understand your relationships, past and present
- Would like to learn, heal, grow and awaken to new possibilities for yourself
FOR PROFESSIONALS: Attention professionals in counseling or healing arts
What is the #1 issue for our clients? The #1 issue has something to do with a relationship. This relationship could be with friends, workmates, bosses, family, or lovers. Yet it has something to do with people.
Integral Relationship will give you a multitude of tools and insights to use with clients that will help you:
Receive certification as an Integral Relationship Professional (and a free listing in our Service Provider Directory)
Integral Relationship will give you a multitude of tools and insights to use with clients that will help you:
- View relationship issues with a new set of eyes
- Uncover the root cause of your client’s issue
- Help your client discern the dynamics of what is occurring
- Describe in simple ways what may seem like complex situations
- Provide methods to help your client understand, recover, and grow
- Be an inspiration as to new and real possibilities available to your client
Receive certification as an Integral Relationship Professional (and a free listing in our Service Provider Directory)
A counseling professional had this to say about Martin Ucik’s book,
Integral Relationship: A Manual for Men:
“I said it once, and I’m going to say it again... this book, Integral Relationship: A Manual for Men, is a must, must, must read for men AND women! I hope it becomes a favorite, well-worn accompaniment to coffee tables across the globe. ~moi, whose MA in Marriage and Family Therapy underwhelms by comparison.” ~ Susan Hodges, M.A., MIT, Certified Integral Coach
Whether you’re a professional or not, aren’t we all helpers of our friends and family?
Wouldn’t it be wonderful to offer these insights to others?
The series will help you
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The Integral Relationship Program:
Here's What You Will Come to Understand

- The various levels of awareness (consciousness)
- How to communicate with different types of people
- Masculine/Feminine polarities and how they ignite passion (for anyone, no matter their sexual identity)
- What holds us back from growing such as our fears and emotional reactions
- Specifics on how to move past our personal blocks to show up in healthy ways
- Levels of spiritual and sexual development
- Multiple ways to view what is a balanced/unbalanced love relationship
- How to bring fulfilling relationships of all types into our lives (includes great dating tips!)
- How all of this relates to our life’s purpose
- How to take our life and relationships to the next level
- Eye-opening insights of the 5 Love Languages and the Enneagram
- And the list goes on and on.
The Integral Relationship message is for anyone wanting to understand themselves, identify the type of love relationship that would serve them, and connect with people in a more integral way. Integral Relationship learnings provide a road map to deeper satisfaction and greater levels of connection....awakening potentials to co-create the kind of love relationships that are not only personally satisfying, but also make the world a better place. Mary Gordon, IR Facilitator
Integral Relationship builds on the insight that adults have the potential for ongoing learning, healing, growing and awakening, and to share a purpose that makes the world a better place.
The essentials of Integral Relationship include 26 topics.
In appreciation of your valuable time, Mary Gordon presents this material in a condensed, time-saving 'block' format.
All 26 elements are included in the condensed format, giving participants the opportunity to complete the classes in four weekends.
In appreciation of your valuable time, Mary Gordon presents this material in a condensed, time-saving 'block' format.
All 26 elements are included in the condensed format, giving participants the opportunity to complete the classes in four weekends.
Enroll in the full program and receive 2 spectacular bonuses:
A free copy of Martin Ucik's book: Integral Relationship: A Manual for Men
And a free 30min consultation with Mary Gordon, on anything "IR" (personal or class related)
Class Elements
- Digital Participant Guide is provided, to use in class and to take away.
- Explanation of concepts via lecture, visuals, and stories.
- Interaction in breakout sessions.
- Q&A time is included.
- Privacy – Participants share only according to their comfort level.
- No recordings are made.
Block 1 - March 25 and 26
10am to 4pm Pacific, live on Zoom
Foundational material for the entire program.
How we function in the world, and within ourselves: This concept is not what we usually consider, yet it is important as to how we interact with others.
The 8 levels of awareness (consciousness) development: From Magic to Egocentric, and up the ladder to Integral and Transpersonal. The level of awareness - which results in behaviors - is key to connecting with others, as well as to our conflicts with them.
Communication with people who are at various levels of development: Often we want to convince others of something, whereas communication can be handled from a different viewpoint. We will look at the communication needs of others from their level of awareness, and specifically how to communicate effectively with different types of people.
How we function in the world, and within ourselves: This concept is not what we usually consider, yet it is important as to how we interact with others.
The 8 levels of awareness (consciousness) development: From Magic to Egocentric, and up the ladder to Integral and Transpersonal. The level of awareness - which results in behaviors - is key to connecting with others, as well as to our conflicts with them.
Communication with people who are at various levels of development: Often we want to convince others of something, whereas communication can be handled from a different viewpoint. We will look at the communication needs of others from their level of awareness, and specifically how to communicate effectively with different types of people.
Block 2 - April 1 and 2
10am to 4pm Pacific, live on Zoom
Masculine/feminine polarities: Knowing this dynamic can tremendously enhance a love relationship, no matter someone’s sexual expression.
The 5 Love Languages: Take the 5 Love Languages quiz and learn what floats your boat as well as how you can honor others by communicating with them in their Love Language.
Spiritual and sexual development: Did you know that a person’s spiritual or sexual development is independent of how conscious they are? We will look at the levels people can achieve (or stoop to) which is important for connecting with others in an integral way.
The 5 Love Languages: Take the 5 Love Languages quiz and learn what floats your boat as well as how you can honor others by communicating with them in their Love Language.
Spiritual and sexual development: Did you know that a person’s spiritual or sexual development is independent of how conscious they are? We will look at the levels people can achieve (or stoop to) which is important for connecting with others in an integral way.
Block 3 - April 15 and 16
10am to 4pm Pacific, live on Zoom
In Block 3 we look at what holds us back from growing our relationships, why people demonstrate behaviors that are irritating or even hurtful to us, and how we can take steps to improve ourselves which will enhance our relationships – or appropriately end them.
We will delve into how we and others are affected by:
We will delve into how we and others are affected by:
- The Anima/Amimus complex, and the fear and shame within both ourselves and our partners
- Our style of attachment to others
- Simple yet profound methods to uncover what we really are feeling and then to speak what is truly in our hearts with anyone
- Ways and levels of falling in love. Which ones have you experienced, and which do you want?
Block 4 - April 22 and 23
10am to 4pm Pacific, live on Zoom
- Personality Disorders, which often are hidden until things get very difficult
- Our soul’s purpose on this planet, which can change and grow.
- What is a “Soulmate” and how to connect with one. This is the part with great dating tips to use or share.
- The Enneagram. Take the Enneagram quiz, become aware of what drives you, be able to give and explain the test to others, and learn how our Enneagram number affects how we relate to others.
- Co-creation at the levels of the chakras. Consider these power points as a way to focus on personal and relationship growth.
- Why all this Integral Relationship business matters.
Mary explains why the book "Integral Relationships" is for everyone

"Martin Ucik wrote Integral Relationships - A Manual for Men because most books on relationships at the time were geared specifically to women's needs. He later said he could have titled it Integral Relationship - A Manual for Me, as he was trying to make sense of his own failed relationships.
"Yet, as I learned the principles, I thought, 'This material for anyone!' While Martin’s book explores the male/female dynamic, much more is covered within its pages including tremendous insights and tools for navigating relationships in general. These insights apply whether you are a man or a woman, and regardless of gender identity and sexual orientation.
"The classes explain love relationships, but also provide insights about friends and family, and about ourselves. Participants will be guided to understandings on how to be a more aware human being, as well as how relationships can flourish.”
Testimonials and Recommendations
Quotes from delighted past participants
- “Mary Gordon's Integral Relationship series will blow your mind!"
- "You will understand yourself on a deeper level, and gain more understanding, clarity, self reflection and self love. You will understand others and how to relate to them in a way that is empowering for you and how to heal current and past relationship issues."
- "I wish I would have had this knowledge in the past to have avoided dead end, unfulfilling, and destructive relationships and dating experiences."
- "Let's get this knowledge out there for a more happy, fulfilling, and peaceful world!”
- “An amazing experience, this Integral Relationship course was truly an eye-opener for me. I loved how the rhythm and flow of the classes - and the aha! moments - sparked self-reflection and encouraged constructive discussion with other participants, which helped me absorb and apply the material to my own life and relationships. I personally benefited immensely from the fascinating course material."
- "Mary shared her deep knowledge of the material with warm professionalism throughout, while developing a wonderful synergy with the group."
- "The powerful examples Mary shared from her personal experience were a home run!"
- "I recommend this course to anyone who wants to make the world a better place, for themselves and for us all. Thanks for everything!”
Tips:
The condensed learning format is new; we fully anticipate that the cost will be higher next time it's offered. This program is eligible for a $250 PIF Scholarship. See PIF#10123 and PIF#10223 and eligibility criteria at this link. |
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Your investment in this 40-hour training includes 2 awesome bonuses:
1. Free book, Integral Relationships, A Manual for Men
2. Free 30 min consultation with Mary regarding anything Integral Relationship, personal or class related
Investment: $495
Facilitator - Mary Gordon CCHT, IRP, CRM
Certified Integral Relationship Professional and Group Facilitator
Intuitive Readings, Hypnotherapy, Integral Relationship, Orb Connection

Mary Gordon was trained personally by Martin Ucik as an Integral Relationship Facilitator. She brings this remarkable knowledge to our Bridges.Academy LLC community in classes and seminars. In addition, Mary uses her intuitive gifts, hypnotherapy and other tools with clients to empower them to step into the life they want. She believes people often need validation and permission to break old habits and move forward.
Her favorite saying is “Sometimes you just have to take the leap and build your wings on the way down.”
Mary highly recommends 3 books by Martin Ucik -
Sex Purpose Love: Couples in Integral Relationship Creating a Better World
Integral Relationships: A Manual for Men
Integral Relationship Practice: A Manual for Singles, Couples, Helping Professionals and Group Facilitators
Learn more about Mary on her website MagicAndHope.com
Her favorite saying is “Sometimes you just have to take the leap and build your wings on the way down.”
Mary highly recommends 3 books by Martin Ucik -
Sex Purpose Love: Couples in Integral Relationship Creating a Better World
Integral Relationships: A Manual for Men
Integral Relationship Practice: A Manual for Singles, Couples, Helping Professionals and Group Facilitators
Learn more about Mary on her website MagicAndHope.com