Stop People-Pleasing, Start Living for You!
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This course is designed to help women make real changes, not just to learn concepts. You’ll have access to interactive quizzes, soul work, and valuable tools to make this learning personal and impactful. Nedjma Sitadevi Belaid, the founder of With Kind Awareness, will guide you step-by-step through each module.
Stop Mind-Reading & Free Yourself From Assumptions Do you find yourself always guessing what others think or need? Learn how this habit does not serve you and how to shift from it and let go of this constant 'assessing'. Stop Trying to Make Everyone Happy Do you feel responsible for how others feel which lead you to try and fix it? Understand that others’ emotions aren’t your responsibility and take responsibility for what you can control; your own. Stop Giving Everything a Negative Meaning Do you find yourself thinking you're a ‘bad friend,’ ‘bad daughter,’ or ‘bad partner’? Discover the power of the meanings we give to situations, and how to shift by choosing more empowering meanings. |
What you get:
5 Transformational Modules Dive deep into each of the 3 behaviors keeping you stuck in people-pleasing, and discover how to release them through powerful mindset shifts, exercises, and practical tools. Personalized Freedom Plan By the end of the course, you’ll craft a plan tailored to your unique life that feels realistic and doable, helping you make these teachings real in your life. Guided Visualization Connect with your future self – the woman who no longer relies on people-pleasing – and anchor her confidence, clarity, and power into your present-day life. Bonus 1:1 Call For a limited time, Nedjma is offering two 1:1 Zoom calls as part of this program to help you personalize your plan, ask specific questions, and get tailored accountability. |
Investment: only $222. You've got nothing to lose!
You have 7 days from the date of purchase to request a refund if you find this course does not meet your expectations. Simply email Nedjma within this period, and your refund will be processed promptly. We encourage you to fully explore the course content during this time to ensure it's the right fit for you.
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Say YES to Yourself and Start Living for You!
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Hi, I'm Nedjma Sitadevi Belaid, Founder of With Kind Awareness
Nedjma Sitadevi Belaid: "Every woman deserves to feel the joy of being their true selves, and connect and live authentically!"
As a Self-Mastery Mentor-Coach & Teacher, I have facilitated more than 2,000 coaching sessions, helping my clients create a life they love. My background is varied, having worked as a pharmacist for over 10 years, and studied many coaching and holistic modalities. I bring my experience and all I have learned to my clients, making my approach unique.
Professional Coach - Coached hundreds, 2,000+ sessions
Former Tony Robbins Results Coach - Robbins Research Intl.
Clinical Hypnotherapist - Alchemy Institute of Hypnosis
NLP Master Practitioner & Trainer - NLP Academy UK
Brain Based Conversion Skills - Neuroleadership Institute
Shamanic Practitioner - Hari Om Tat Sat Hermitage
Ordained Swami - Temple of Kriya Yoga
Pharm.D., B.Sc. - University of Montreal
Professional Coach - Coached hundreds, 2,000+ sessions
Former Tony Robbins Results Coach - Robbins Research Intl.
Clinical Hypnotherapist - Alchemy Institute of Hypnosis
NLP Master Practitioner & Trainer - NLP Academy UK
Brain Based Conversion Skills - Neuroleadership Institute
Shamanic Practitioner - Hari Om Tat Sat Hermitage
Ordained Swami - Temple of Kriya Yoga
Pharm.D., B.Sc. - University of Montreal
My people-pleasing story...
I spent most of my younger years trying to please others so I can feel love and accepted. I became a master at assessing and analyzing other people’s behaviors and non-verbal cues so I could "read their minds."
"Is it safe to play and be loud, or should I keep quiet right now?"
"What should I say to my friend to be included or liked?"
"Should I laugh, be outraged, just nod?"
I took responsibility for people's moods around me because I felt it was much safer when everyone was happy. If someone was sad or upset, I wanted to fix it, so I learned to be an excellent solution finder and quite an entertainer.
With different people having different expectations for me, I also became a master of disguise, a chameleon.
In my quest for approval and belonging, I started to realize that it was just not possible to constantly please others, and even when I did, it was not long-lasting. Plus, it was so much work to keep up with all my masks, and when failing to please, I fell into despair.
I preferred being on my own because it was so much quieter inside: I could just BE. I pushed people away as much as I could, reinforcing my belief that I was unlikable and alone. So I coped with filling myself up with food and disconnecting from life with TV.
One day, I had enough. I remember it vividly. I was crying in my dorm room. If this was life, I wanted none of it. I was bitter and frustrated. I felt that no one cared about my wants and needs, and I felt shame for having them in the first place. I hated myself because by constantly trying to please others, I was not pleasing myself. In that dark abyss, I made a choice: I am going to learn to please ME.
The problem was, I did not know what I wanted or even who I really was! I had spent so much time focused on pleasing others and pretending to be someone I wasn't. So I had questions:
"How can I be OK with disappointing others?"
"Where is the line between pleasing ME and caring about others?"
"How do I establish boundaries and which ones are okay?"
I consulted psychologists, became a coach, and soaked up every learning I could. Along the way, as a bonus, I overcame my generalized anxiety disorder and ADHD.
After years of self-mastery, I can report: I am FREE. The tendencies to please might come up here and there, but they don’t take over because I catch them in the act. After isolating myself from others for years, I am now discovering the joy of connections and belonging.
When I learned it was okay to have wants and needs, and how to balance it all with those of others to create win-wins, I found my voice. This lifelong learning is worth it my friends!
It is now my life’s purpose to bring this empowerment, joy, inner peace and a sense of belonging to as many women as I can!
I spent most of my younger years trying to please others so I can feel love and accepted. I became a master at assessing and analyzing other people’s behaviors and non-verbal cues so I could "read their minds."
"Is it safe to play and be loud, or should I keep quiet right now?"
"What should I say to my friend to be included or liked?"
"Should I laugh, be outraged, just nod?"
I took responsibility for people's moods around me because I felt it was much safer when everyone was happy. If someone was sad or upset, I wanted to fix it, so I learned to be an excellent solution finder and quite an entertainer.
With different people having different expectations for me, I also became a master of disguise, a chameleon.
In my quest for approval and belonging, I started to realize that it was just not possible to constantly please others, and even when I did, it was not long-lasting. Plus, it was so much work to keep up with all my masks, and when failing to please, I fell into despair.
I preferred being on my own because it was so much quieter inside: I could just BE. I pushed people away as much as I could, reinforcing my belief that I was unlikable and alone. So I coped with filling myself up with food and disconnecting from life with TV.
One day, I had enough. I remember it vividly. I was crying in my dorm room. If this was life, I wanted none of it. I was bitter and frustrated. I felt that no one cared about my wants and needs, and I felt shame for having them in the first place. I hated myself because by constantly trying to please others, I was not pleasing myself. In that dark abyss, I made a choice: I am going to learn to please ME.
The problem was, I did not know what I wanted or even who I really was! I had spent so much time focused on pleasing others and pretending to be someone I wasn't. So I had questions:
"How can I be OK with disappointing others?"
"Where is the line between pleasing ME and caring about others?"
"How do I establish boundaries and which ones are okay?"
I consulted psychologists, became a coach, and soaked up every learning I could. Along the way, as a bonus, I overcame my generalized anxiety disorder and ADHD.
After years of self-mastery, I can report: I am FREE. The tendencies to please might come up here and there, but they don’t take over because I catch them in the act. After isolating myself from others for years, I am now discovering the joy of connections and belonging.
When I learned it was okay to have wants and needs, and how to balance it all with those of others to create win-wins, I found my voice. This lifelong learning is worth it my friends!
It is now my life’s purpose to bring this empowerment, joy, inner peace and a sense of belonging to as many women as I can!
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